The first observation would be that FD consistently misnames what it's doing:
Beta really = Alpha
Release = Beta
Patches, when finally done before the next upgrade cycle = Gamma -> Release
Hard to argue that this isn't the case.
The second observation:
FD's success does NOT depend on any of us to CONTINUE to play the game. In fact, because of the costs associated with hosting the game, heavy users are a COST of doing business and contribute NOTHING to the bottom line of the company. Yes, maybe we buy a 5 pound paint job or something, but the reality is that the lion's share of revenue doesn't come from the user base continuing to play, but from the stream of new users purchasing the game. As soon as a user purchases the game they immediately become a liability to FD that reduces their profit.
The name of the game for FD is NOT client retention, it's getting new users into the game.
Knowing that this is the case, don't drive yourself crazy.
Only play betas if you have access for your own reasons, not FD's. They can give you some insight for how to position yourself for the next release and have a bit of a leg up on the crowd.
When the release drops, assuming you have already strategically placed all your assets ahead of time, Take a break from the game and do something else for the week after the initial drop and enjoy a good laugh on the forums as all the whining and arguing take place. Let the dust settle and plan your re-entry point as the fixes unfold and other "beta" testers give you enough clues on the forums to refine your re-entry plans.
Don't get so immersed in the game that you don't learn the meta game.
This debacle finally motivated me to go work on my Exploration ranking. As I saw what was coming in the beta, I moved all my assets to FW and sold off all the modules on the heavy iron as there was no way to predict the outcome of the 10% debate. Kitted up my Asp and I'm out of the fray for an as yet undetermined time period while the base and FD figures out where they are going with 1.3
It's starting to look like I'll remain in this approach until we get close to 1.4 Alpha - ooops, I mean Beta, or maybe i was right the first time... getting hard to keep it all straight at my age.