In regards to ME4, you probably still don't get to fly your own ship, hard to compare to Elite as they are not the same type of game.
Since Bioware sold their soul to the devil EA, they haven't been the same studio. ME was good but I got to the end and never beat it because of the disappointing story ending which was complained about by most people who bothered to finish it. Which is a shame because the first two games were so great. The ending very much reminds me of the Matrix Triology. The first movie was absolutely great, the second was still pretty decent, but the third? What happened? I am disappoint. The poo that was mistaken for an ending ruined the entire trilogy for me. For this reason alone, I will not preorder ME Andromeda. It looks great from the trailer but anyone can make a trailer look good- #willnotbesuckeredagain
To say I'm taking a wait and see approach is an understatement, hopefully Bioware/EA can redeem themselves, maybe they will win me back, lol
In regards to the wanna-play-the-2.3-update-itis, I think it's a real thing. It's similar to that feeling you get the night before a big game releases. A game that you have been waiting to play for ages and have been salivating over for the final 30 days before it releases. All of a sudden all of your most fun games seem....boring. They may have been fun yesterday but suddenly, not so much today. Then you end up watching a bad Sci-Fi movie instead, just to pass the time.
It hasn't hit me fully yet but I know it's coming. Right now I'm too busy with my new disdain for Fujin Tea, and it's very limited supply of 5t. I hate you engineers (no really baby, I love you...I didn't mean to say.....)