What, if anything is lost though? Credits, faction rep, failed missions? It still remains a truth that if you are genuinely angry or upset at having progress temporarily halted, when you could have chosen to avoid the encounter altogether, that you are doing something wrong.I'm suggesting that some lack empathy in considering what other players have spent real time trying to do in this pretend setting and have no respect for the goals of their peers in that setting. Some even going so far as to denigrate others for not spending that time directly responding to their whims instead. I'm suggesting that's something those individuals can be judged for in isolation regardless of how their real world interactions may be.
And as it turns out that's a perfect answer to why people don't do what the op requests more often.
If people do not want to deal with this situation, the emotionally mature response is to remove yourself from it, find a squadron and play in a PvE only PG or go to solo. What part of this are you saying is wrong?