To be fair, ramming in this game is pure gimmickry. Try ramming in Space Engineers - it looks a lot more like this:That's right, and while there at it, take away the ability to ram other's, it's not fair when one wants to shoot the other and all they want to do is ram me. It especially sucks when they are in a larger ship so lets get rid of larger ships also.
So I agree with you, get rid of ramming as it is portrayed in ED - it's complete tosh.