I know - I'd say most encounters are non-hostile, I do fly patrols in open and have never even been attacked even once, it almost seems you have to put yourself in a "position" to be attacked, running cargo missions in high traffic systems, sitting still to enjoy the view etc.
I guess the strategist (avoid decisive battle unless the odds are stacked in your favour beforehand) in me is in conflict with the pilot (enjoy dogfight on even terms) - maybe I should look into the other game mode where pilots fly standardized ships for that particular purpose