In regards of the instant transportation - well, for game play it might be good, but it's killing the immersion. Sure, it is ridiculous to travel thousands of light years for crewing up together, but that's how it works now with wings. I have played with lots of friends in wings, and it have worked fine, even though we might spend some time traveling to each other. If I can get instantly teleported into a ship in the bubble when I am out exploring at the other site of the galaxy, it really kills the immersion, and removes the consequences of the actions you take (which is a nice aspect of Elite).
This was a lot of quotes, but I really feel like Frontier needs to listen to it's players.
I have a job that requires 60 hours a week + family responsibilities and on top of that, my friends all have differing schedules.
If we have to meet up at a station in the same system to multicrew, my entire night will be spent corralling folks.
Immersion won with the timers on transferring ships and modules. My week of gametime typically follows this pattern: plot a course to a system/objective, reach it on night 1 and request transfer of my ships and modules. Night 2 begin to do the things I came for. Night 3 fly out to my next destination and queue up transfers. Repeat.
At this point, I don't have the time (and many are in the same boat) to continue waiting arbitrary periods before being able to play the damned game.
Suffering through the ship transfer/module transfer waiting periods is one thing. But having to coordinate our free nights together, AND coordinate where we need to meet up is too much of a barrier. I might be able to get a single night in a month with my friends where our free time lines up and we have more than 30 minutes to spend together. Shame on anyone who thinks that time should be spent jumping endlessly to get to the same system before we can crew up.
If this breaks immersion for you, then by all means fly yourself out to your friends and crew up in person. Let the telepresence option remain for those of us with limited overlapping playtime. You don't need to punish people like us to continue enjoying the game your way. Please understand that. PLEASE.