Yes with the years (many) but sadness and pain are a scar that opens regularly, and never close definitively.The pain lessens as time goes on and happy remembrance increases
At least, that's been my experience.
General / Off-Topic 2020: COVID is not the worst part for me.
They've never really been kept as pets until quite recently so all the veterinary treatment is cutting edge experimental stuff pioneered by impractical idiots like me. Usually if a chicken looks a bit down they just get eaten, mine come in the house and get pampered till they get better.
Nevertheless, regrets on losing your bird friend.
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Nevertheless, regrets on losing your bird friend.
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Thanks Robin.
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Came here to say it just becomes more fun.
I am single again now. I won't get into details but ending my relationship was a mutual agreement, and we still seem able to talk civilly.
I am single again now. I won't get into details but ending my relationship was a mutual agreement, and we still seem able to talk civilly.
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No, trust me, it isn't. That's not just denial.Perhaps your sadness with the loss of your pet is the cause of this situation ?
It is that it turns out that we wanted very different things from a relationship and there's no way ours could be sustained.
To keep it alive would mean one of us would have to lie to ourselves and well, that is not something anyone should do.
So a split was the kindest option.
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That's what I am hoping.Yes the best solution here. And in addition the friendship is preserved.
But first things first. Before continued friendship I needed to make sure both of us are now free to go our own way. This was somewhat selfishly motivated, as to be honest I was the one having to give up a lot.
In the end I was asked far too much and carrying on was going to make my already bad depression even worse. Possibly a proverbial straw on my back, actually.
Living a life of self-isolation, can be an issue, if you are thinking about forming a relationship.
Sorry to hear this, I would say get a turtle as your new pet. It can even outlive you.
I can understand the feeling of suffocation created by the others when we are suffering from depression.
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I know we've spoken a few times in the past. Do you mind if I PM you?