Point missed by a country mile...
Oh it wasn't missed, he got it.
But you're not the first person on the forums to think; let's jump in to the shark tank then whine when I get bitten.
(shocker I know)
Quite a few of us ran out of sympathy for these kinds of threads 3 years ago when the forum was awash with them.
If you don't want to be shot for no reason, then don't play where people can shoot you for no reason.
There are plenty of popular private groups that allow for all types of game play and are just as busy as open.