Conveniently defining several tens of thousands of players who disagree with you as outside "The community" and therefore unpersons who can safely be ignored has been a common player mistake for a long time.The fall of ED has only one culprit and that is Frontier. The community has always pointed the way forward, but FDev does things that no one asks for or cares about, like Thargoid warfare.
- The start of the war in U14 saw the largest boost in player activity since Fleet Carriers (and possibly since Beyond 3.3 depending on how you count).
- From the squadron leaderboards, between a third and a quarter of all active squadrons have at least one active AX pilot (and the majority of squadrons are small 1-3 player groups); actual war participation will be a bit higher as there are ways to participate which don't get AX points, and not everyone joins a squadron (or creates a personal one)
- The AX CGs tended to get equal or slightly higher participation to other CGs held at a similar time or location
- Prior to U14 there were regular threads started by players suggesting that the Thargoids should be more aggressive rather than sitting around in signal sources, actually invade the bubble, etc. etc.
There are a lot of issues in the details around the war, certainly - some where it needs mechanics or balancing adjusting, others caused by it being rolled out very slowly so it has periods of strategic stagnation - and those issues get a lot of comments and complaints. Specifically, they get a lot of complaints from people who are interested in the content, because the people who don't care about the war won't notice such things.
You can make an argument that Frontier should be focusing on developing something else - I'm not particularly interested in fighting Thargoids either, and I find the total focus on the war very samey in terms of story developments - without denying that all the players who are interested in it exist.