My skin crawled when I read this, such an obnoxious crowd here.
Hi filip,
I think obnoxious is the wrong word entirely - Brian was just making a joke, even though the gynocentrism did show. Makes you wonder how female backers would react to another female saying "I prefer to be ordered around by a man", but of course that's entirely different... er.
I confess to feeling "creeped out" by some of the numerous posts where backers talk about "being in the doghouse" with "the other half", sleeping on the sofa, "making it up" to their partner for buying a computer game and/or rig etc. etc. etc.
However female voices on ships is very traditional - think Star Trek and lots of other sci-fi. So personally this doesn't bother me at all. It's more just paying homage to a trope. I've not seen the research that people refer to - it might be valid, but it might just be feminist propaganda - god knows there is plenty of that about.
+1 rep for you however since I think you have been dealt with pretty harshly on this thread and I want to restore a bit of balance. It's fairly obvious to me you probably aren't trolling and it is frankly out of order for others to state that you are. God forbid that other people have an actual point of view and all that.