This thread is definitely wandering into hotel california territory.
Varonica, you have a curious personal definition of PvP. It is called PvP because it is an adversarial scenario between players, as compared to PvE, which is player(s) vs the environment (eg NPCs or just the landscape). What you are describing is the difference between interacting with vs acting on you.
Have a look here if you are unclear on the differences:
en.wikipedia.org
Here's a TL;DR for easy consumption:
I am a peaceful person. I am capable of great harm but choose not to. If someone is incapable of harming me they are not peaceful, they are harmless. Note that that is not the same as defenceless.
Varonica, you have a curious personal definition of PvP. It is called PvP because it is an adversarial scenario between players, as compared to PvE, which is player(s) vs the environment (eg NPCs or just the landscape). What you are describing is the difference between interacting with vs acting on you.
Have a look here if you are unclear on the differences:

Bartle taxonomy of player types - Wikipedia
Here's a TL;DR for easy consumption:

I am a peaceful person. I am capable of great harm but choose not to. If someone is incapable of harming me they are not peaceful, they are harmless. Note that that is not the same as defenceless.