Outrage culture. Must be blaming something, must be hating someone. It's really pitiful the extent of energy and time some folks will spend on it. The alpha was there, plus many recent examples of why not to pre-order games, if you're supporting pre-orders to be later throwing hissy fits about launch not being perfection incarnate, you're unfortunately being part of the problem.
I prefer to look at it this way. Game I spent thousands of hours in has asked for an additional $40 for DLC and continued updates. Sure, count me in, I'm in for the long run anyway. They don't do monthly fees or pay to win, yet have been able to work on this game for more than 6 years already.
Sadly you are correct, that and schadenfreude appear to be the new norm.
Edit: Oh yes, and I'm also enjoying the game. It has problems that need addressing ASAP, but saying that it was deliberate etc is rather naive.
Edit 2: This seems appropriate somehow
That's life
That's what all the people say
You're riding high in April
Shot down in May
But I know I'm gonna change that tune
When I'm back on top, back on top in June
I said that's life
And as funny as it may seem
Some people get their kicks
Stomping on a dream
But I don't let it, let it get me down
'Cause this fine old world
It keeps spinning around