Well, that's your problem right there. This exactly the sort of stuff many people want in their games and indeed, this sort of stuff is a fundamental part of the vision Frontier originally had.Because, in truth, this is just a game, so I find there's no place for all that horse.
The game cannot exclude the forms of competition simply because you do not personally have a place for them in your entertainment. It's already provided various ways to-opt out of undesirable forms of competition (other than the BGS, of course), but the baseline has to be as unrestricted as possible to allow for as many playstyles as possible.
Organic PvP cannot exist with overmany arbitrary hard limits on who can engage who, or on what terms. Quite a few players, most of whom have no ill will toward, nor are attempting to cause grief for, others, thoroughly enjoy the potential for assymetric encounters the challenges that only they can bring.
If I want a simulated combat sport within the game, I can have that essentially any time I care to. However, PvP is so much more than this, and most of the time I am not looking for a simulation of a combat sport, I am looking for a hollistic simulation of conflict...where the only gamist concessions are to avoid most of the real-life tedium and physical dangers associated with real-world conflicts. Strategy, logistics, tactics, attrition...I want to experience all of that as I have my CMDR pursue his personal doctrines.
And I want to be opposed by other players who aren't having their CMDRs pull any punches, because I find nothing more damaging to the verisimilitude of fantasy organic conflict than an enemy that seems to want to give me a sporting chance. I don't expect most of my CMDRs opposition to be a match for him, and most of them should not expect it either...which is why they should be stacking the odds in their favor any way they can. A victory is a victory, and I'll respect an opponent that knows their limitations and waits until my CMDR can be caught with his pants down at least as much as I'll respect one that can best him in a 'fair' fight.