ok i talked to the people I bought the vid card from and explained my situation and I can send it back for a refund and I asked them about any recommendations and he said that maybe a NVidia GeForce Gt 610 2gb but wasn't sure if it would make a whole lot of difference since my computer is sff which makes graphics cards extremely limited any ideas would be appreciated about this card
Something a lot of people don't under stand is that the amount of video ram a GPU has plays almost not role in how it performs unless you are filling it up which wont happen on a low end GPU and a high end one should have enough VRAM to handle the core performance.
so for example a GTX 960 with 2gb of ram will absolutely crush a gt610 even with the same 2gb of VRAM. Even if the gt610 had 200gb of VRAM the gtx 960 would still perform substantially better.