I'm sorry - I've had tremendous fun in the past in this comon debateThere isn’t one. If you look I’ve never stated that wanting the easier option is bad. I’ve simply stated that solo is the easier option. It’s people trying to argue it because their own decisions to use it for that fact somehow makes them feel defensive when it’s put in plain English.
it’s not bad. I for example played doom eternal on easiest difficulty because I wanted the bigger margin of error. If you want the bigger margin of error, cool dude. But let’s not pretend that people use solo because involuntary combat is some sort of unexpected anomaly, since it still exists there just from less threatening NPCs

As long as we have modes in the game snide comments will be passed to those who have no wish to 'socialise' in open, by those who appear upset that they are unable to 'socialise' with those same players
It is a constant circular debate, and the reasoning behind it appears to be solely an ego one to me.
Personally, I play in solo only in sites where instancing with another player would potentially disadvantage both of us (think Guardian sites, Dav's etc), the remainder of game time on this account is PG (for a couple of friends) - my main is 99% in open (same collecting premise)... entirely my own choice