I understand exactly where you are coming from. I have spent giant amounts of time traveling the galaxy. And watching you-tube videos, late night shows, getting diner ready, laundry, etc while doing many hundreds of jumps.
There are two things that incredibly annoy me about the jump concept:
1. The jump sequence shuts down the ship maps and menus. SLAM... they are auto closed. BAM!
2. There is nothing else to do in the ship while jumping. Just look out the front window. (see point #1). Or watch the youtube video on second monitor. Or watch TV.
I am really surprised that a game fundamentally based on spaceship travel hasn't addressed this. Why can't the cmdr do activities while the ship is traveling? This question always brings up the weenie answer "well actually, the hyperspace screen is just a loading screen". Well whoopee-do. My PC is capable of doing other things while the next instance gets loaded. There is no need for everything ingame to come to a grinding halt.
My thoughts: Travel shouldn't be made easier, faster, or simpler. It should be made more enjoyable. Let the cmdr continue to setup fire groups, check inventory, review active missions. Why aren't there investigative chores a cmdr can do while flying? As said, this is fundamentally a spaceship travelling game. The player shouldn't be forced out of all gaming activities while traveling.