I'm blowing up tons of ships (in ways that other people sometimes don't like, including mean station kills), but I've never been rude to anyone. Always civil, since we're just having some fun here. You should see how serious and angry some people get.
Seeing Vipers with hardpoints deployed and an Anaconda melting ships is a fairly good indicator you shouldn't try docking, but people still do
Bring on 1.2 and the lynch mob! Wings will be great.
Probably because your "fun" is costing CMDRs a lot of credits and many hours of game play. By all means have your "fun" but don't be surprised that others don't find your actions equally enjoyable..