YOU, personally, were not aware when you created a thread in the player groups forum to start up a pirate group. Many of your members are clearly, painfully aware of the other group's existence.
Suicide squads are used in EvE because it is a legitimate tactic for what they do, not because of some malignant purpose. No one has been extorted in Real Life through EvE Online without immediately facing criminal charges, CCP actively and fervently hunts down extortionists on their own and presses their own charges, with or without the player's direct complaint. They track all of the financial side of EvE online down to the last hundredth of an isk and link it to every real person.
CCP does not, under any circumstances, tolerate any intrusion of in-game activities on a person's real life. They get deadly serious about that crap and punish anyone who commits such acts to the fullest extent of the law in whatever country they live.
I am not the Captain of The Code, I did not create our syndicate. However, I can confirm that the founding members had no idea that "C.O.D.E." existed until people on the FD forum began to question us.
Members that joined us later on might have knowledge about the C.O.D.E., but they are made aware that we do not endorse their action nor mimic them.