I don't mind getting attacked by silent loonies too much anymore but I have way more respect for a cmdr who speaks first, doesn't matter what they say, light RP is the best unless they go full pirate which seems to be a rare treat now. Unfortunately things like hotas and VR can make it really awkward for some people to type, they can be forgiven but it would be nice if there was a way to tell if someone actually could speak or reply, a togglable option maybe with a little symbol by their name or something might be useful. If someone asks me for a fight then I'm way more likely to accept and fight til the end without trying to run if it goes sour for myself.