Well, I certainly wasn't attempting to counter, discount nor deny any of what you just said with my post...We start our 22nd? 23rd? Odyssey war today. There's still a constant pressure on our systems that we have to play whack-a-mole to prevent inf loss/war/retreat. Any illusion that we're doing well is down to the heroic effort of our BGS players. We're well organised and know how to work the BGS but constantly putting our fires instead of growing is pretty tiring. For example, just today we lost 3.5%+ INF in 7 systems. Derrim and Baraswar were closer to 10% and that will happen every day unless we work hard to counter it or the systems slide into war and INF gets locked for a bit.
We're pretty handicapped by the fact we own twice as many ground bases as the next closest anarchy and, thanks to this fantastic game design, these are nothing but a hindrance.