You don't reason with viruses either, silly.
You eradicate them utterly by finding the treatment that destroys them and purging them from your system.
Last I checked, superior firepower worked. Get to it.
You ever hear the the phrasing that "Cure the disease and kill the patient" Bacon said it best.
Anyhow that is what it would take. Kill the spirit of the game to cure it of its disease.
This game will never be COD in space. If that is what you wish, then you go and play COD because it has no place here.
CQC was created for quick action with little to no lasting effect. If you lose a ship in CQC they dont delete it from your roster or charge you millions to get into another ship. They choose not to partake in it because its an even playing ground. To be good in CQC you have to have some kind of piloting skill and everyone has access to the same equipment as you do. Since they have no interest in competitive play, they avoid CQC because they cant deal with the possibility of losing.
Eventually FDEV will be forced to put their foot down or risk losing a huge source of income. They must not have run off enough new players or caused enough veteran people to stop playing the game.