Arma3 - beCTI online is a LOT of fun, was on it last night in fact.
This one just got 'greenlit' on steam , could be a new test for your joystick
http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=353863895
Not as far as I'm aware. All these folks are speaking nonsense.
I will say that Fallout 4 will drag me away from Elite for quite a while in November, but until then...
PS I'm totally married and she's amazing. Just to be clear, haha. And she laughs at me when I start yelling at my computer to deploy weapons and to divert power to engines.