You really just don't get that other people might find PvP, a tedious, boring, inconvenient, waste of time? Something we only engage in when we forget what mode we are in and someone else decides that we must play with them? That is what it is to me, inconvenient. You may find mining or other facets boring, that is fine. I find PvP boring, and that is fine too.
But since you are unlikely to ever see me or I you, I don't suppose it matters. I only go into open on purpose when my morbid sense of curiosity gets the better of me, and I want to find out if PvPers still usually ignore ships they know they cant kill fast enough or catch, and slaughter any other ship they can.
I really think they need to move the solo mode button to the first position. It will make it harder for players to fat finger themselves into open when they really should not be there, and don't actually want to be there.