I have an excellent internet connection but no interest in MP gaming. I need to be able to pause and save my position, and love modding.
What made Elite and FE2 so fantastic was having your own personal galaxy as a playground, to be toyed with on your terms and in your own time.
Same things i like about GTA. I've dipped a toe in the GTA MP water but it's not for me because you quickly end up getting roped into impromptu teams with strangers you're suddenly obligated towards; whether that's cooperating or competing with - as soon as you're playing with others you can no longer just do whatever you want, when you want. I prefer to follow my nose, make my own goals, and juggle them as the mood takes me. Again, pausing as necessary is vital for me - especially if i need to be regularly Googling for help on the game.
Elite was the doyen of this kind of SP self-indulgence. At heart, it's introvert crack, of the most addictive yet guilt-free kind, and so any kind of interference is highly intrusive. Think of anything that is absolutely, fundamentally best enjoyed solo, and Elite is right up there, along with dreaming, and perhaps one or two other, uh, 'pastimes'. I don't mind the occasional spectator, but even that would usually be unwelcome.
For me, Elite multiplayer might be OK for occasional kicks & grins - check out
San Andreas Multi Player (SAMP) - if FD had released the FE2 sourcecode to allow something like this, i'd've considered it cool and probably have enjoyed messing about in it. Even better would've been a GTA V / GTA Online type solution, re-using the same assets in otherwise entirely separate games. But making MP the focus of a full-on Elite sequel has massively short-changed me as a player - it's no longer the Aspie's paradise i was once so enchanted by.
Bottom line: It's lost the personal touch that made it special. The sweet innocent farmer's daughter who stole my heart has become a cheap tart, and now that everyone's having some, i don't think i want anymore..
It's got about as much to do with internet connection quality as the price of bacon..