What exactly are you expecting to change? (honest question)
I posted DBs words just above, "solo players balance solo players" in regard to PP / 1.3 - so FD obviously don't see a problem (and they have all the data we don't).
I genuinely am sorry ED is not working out for you, perhaps the promised Ironman mode will bring something the game currently lacks for you.
What would you turn to if you did?
As I believe SC will have a more fractured player base, due to having personal private servers. Plus I'm told (not sure how true, so if anyone can link me information, that would be great) the persistent world over there will be similar to ED, with the P2P instancing system we have.
I know nothing about the other space one, new sky or something? But I gather that is more about being out exploring (again, any info is welcome)