Never undestood that mindset, want to make the kids not feel left out? by giving them almost exactly the same as the winner? then what's the point?He's probably from the generation where all the kids get a medal for trying hard.
Holy crap, how is this hard people? Make sure to have enough money to cover insurance on your ship, it's actually mind blowing that people don't realize this.
Give them at best a participation ribbon, shows they tried, but let the medals only be given to winners.
Trying should be encouraged and motivated, but not on the same level as winning, course said winners should not be idiots about it, which unfortunately you hear many are. If the winners (and this goes not only for that generation of kids and such) but also for those that 'win' big in terms of money, didn't look down the nose upon those that tried but didn't win, the world would be very very different.