I have absolutely no problem with people playing the game, interdicting me, killing me, destroying me in a combat zone. That's the game. That's what it is. And if you're not exploiting that's fine.
But there's absolutely no reason ever to start throwing personal insults at anyone.
The only action I would ever try to prevent via anything but my CMDR's in game resources and ability is cheating.
As far as I am concerned, if there is a chat function, anything that can be put into it is as much a part of the game as of the things you have mentioned. I have certainly seen it influence the things you have mentioned. I've have had incompetent, but foul mouthed, wingmates attract virtually all hostile CMDR fire while I was ignored and thus able to turn the battle in our favor...because my opponents had placed avenging an insult over sound tactics. I've also been on the losing side for similar reason...allies going after someone because they were offensive rather than a prudent target. So, these things are obviously another later of strategic and tactical depth.
As for what people can or can't handle, I don't see any relevance in this. There are people who can't handle the gameplay mechanics you mention, and that is their problem. So is not being able to handle words or distractions. If it gets in the way, that's what the block feature is for.
Obviously, I know FD doesn't see things my way, and I generally follow the rules they have laid out. However, there is no way I'm going to report anyone for breaking these kinds of rules. I feel people are entitled to say whatever they care to say, and I am entitled to ignore or block them if I find it overly disagreeable or distracting.
Absolutely. Bad language displays a most disagreeable lack of social grace, and should be actively discouraged.
I find social grace disagreeable.
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We are all playing an online game where we have absolutely no idea of the ages of the other players.
I don't care what anyone's age is and don't think age should exempt anyone from anything.
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If I learned that a child of mine was picking up obscenities from a computer game - whether it was from the game program or other players, that game would be removed and they would be banned from playing it.
If your children have the manual dexterity and literacy required to play and communicate within Elite: Dangerous, they have almost certainly picked up every obscenity under the sun already, unless you have been very obsessive in sheltering them from human interaction.
Surely it's easy to work out what language you can use and what you can't - it's the same as the language you use on the forum - handily it seems to edit your post and just removes the word before it appears.
I've had the forum remove words from some of my posts that resulted in some of my posts being filled with holes and me being puzzled as to exactly which words were removed.
I cannot always predict what other people or robots may or may not find kosher.