The PvP in main game ED isn't a balanced arena. Those willing to take up the challenge will play in Open, those who do not won't. The difference in attitude is basically this:
PvP:
Hm, I didn't do so well, I should research and learn about how to be competitive in this environment and study my opponent's build and take time to reflect on my own build.
PvE:
Unfair, unfair, I'm so done with this, I'm out. I don't want to put in the hours those people that beat me did to become informed of the current meta and counter methods.
This mentality difference is usually immutable.
I'd like to take a moment with this statement, it is true that PVE only people may have some issues competitively with a person who prefers a pvp environment. Now on to the real statement: Unlike other MMO or MMO types, or games with MMO properties...ED does not hand out or allow you to buy pve and pvp equipment...its all just equipment, no advantage there....the advantage comes from fitting the proper fit for the job. An example, some folks in the pvp environment make their ships tougher, more survivable with addition of HRP's in mutiples, maybe SRB's but these have been hampered so maybe less , shield boosters,...etc, their build will be centric around stripping the person down fast, ie high dps output, likely gimbaled weapons possibly turrented, (this could actually be something to take advantage of if you are a good shot with fixed weapons)(ps get good with fixed weapons), they will have armor...ie makes em more survivable.
next ...a pve fit tends to be more about getting rid of npc's...ship can do that with just about anything in the right order...npc are not creative...they fly the way they are programmed to...great for learning by the way...target practice is target practice....pvp types unless they are new will more than likely have a ship capable of doing what it should...they have the money...otherwise well its even...its about the skill at this point and ship...an example, a python is not as nimble as a vulture, but it has more fire power and it is tougher, vulture is more nimble but its slower....it has its sweet spot for sure, and depending on its fit can actually give a python a bad day...head to head it wont last, but its cheaper to replace A graded. Python v python...better fit wins, lighter fit might get a bit of edge for mobility, but the one fit for fighting will likely be more survivable.
all preaching to the choir right? not really...point is...pve/pvp no advantages...difference is one is a person not program....take 2 equally fit ships...its going to be skill...if there was different sets...pvp or pve then there would be a valid argument there...but its all the same stuff.
Better definition is that some maybe not all pve types, don't feel they can compete or they don't want to. they just want to do their thing. that's cool and should be respected...if they aren't pushing their style on any one then the pvp crowd, shouldn't feel the need to drag them into their shenanigans.
I play in either arena....it really depends on mood or need. TBH I would get bored with just pvp content ie why I stopped playing MWO...there just isn't enough diversity in one play style that is centric around PVP...I like stories, like missions, trading not as much but fast way to money, bounty hunting (I dove tail my PVP into this area), even mining for quiet I don't want ppl to bug me days.
Last thing, because of the huge deal it has become. A lot of people are just leary of playing in open and getting ganked multiple times. Lots of horror stories on this and well it makes headlines; people will shy away from it, others well no so much. Gotta understand, someone been working the hard way to an anaconda for trade and the money to fill the cargo hull, get pulled over and shot at by not a pirate just some joker wanting to kill the guy for giggles, well I can see a problem. Pirates are about the greed and its cool; viable job, but the other guy nope just killin to kill, no bounty, cargo blown up, no purpose. Those fellas make it hard on the pvp community period. Its not the ppl screaming pve. Its not the pvp crowd. Its a third group of whatever you want to call em, this one makes it no fun for the pve guy, and the pvp guy who wants to bring in the pve dude ; well hes been shut down because of party 3 leaving a terrible taste in ones mouth.
Im done with my wall...fly well all!!