That might functionally be true for some, but it is not for the vast majority of complaint posts I see. When people complain about "dying in seconds" to a small ship, being unable to outrun a slow ship, or being unable to turn well enough to get a single shot off on an NPC before dying; I am sure they tried their best, but there is no "circumstances don't allow for specific improvement" in those scenarios.
Those are people making repeated basic mistakes. The kind that they could fix with as much effort as they already put into complaining if only they had just asked for help instead and didn't preemptively shield themselves from all help with false claims of "skill cap".
We all make basic mistakes, it's nothing against them. My issue is with nurturing a forum culture that encourages this weird sort of ego-driven arrogance which admits defeat while demanding that no one look at what went wrong and externalizing all blame. This only results in demands for a game that allows for a player making repeated basic mistakes to still win.
I don't want to punish less-skilled players, that is not the point. I am happy to help them out. I don't even want to punish those who die, then come here to complain about, to me, outlandish encounters where a had no business dying if they follwed some basic flight principles.
I want the game culture to simply be one that accepts self improvement. Lots of posters do, sure. I like that. But we also have lots of posters who come in, tell stories of dying in frankly ridiculous ways, and demand to be treated as if they were at the peak of their skills.
They are not at the peak of their skills. Honestly, to me, it's would feel condesending to treat them as if they were; I don't want to tell someone they are not worth helping.
I've got a suggestion. This conversation is going around in circles. How about I take them at their word. I can offer alternative strategies where I see them. At the same time you can assume they're selling themselves short and offer them useful advice on what to do in identical circumstances? That way we have all bases covered.