Transport/transfer for ships & modules is desperately needed and welcomed.
Instant transfer is debatable. People will scream immersion breaking and unrealistic but at the same time it is a game and not real life, having too many real life game mechanics will impede gameplay and enjoyment more often than not, as proven time and again in almost every game release. This is something that players need to understand. I know that some players go through a life and death struggle to understand this, i sympathize with you but gaming is NOT real life, even with VR. That being said a balance is appreciated, a compromise, maybe a 1 minute wait for every 10ly distance travel.
Look at it this way, if you can instantly teleport your ships, why do we spend hours in our ships traveling around? No then I should be able to INSTANTLY teleport to my destination as long as there is a station there.