All good. Just trying to come up with some random suggestions. Playing Devil's Advocate. [wacky]
In this particular case (i.e. not instant ship transfer), I would tend to go for crazy-short delays. More of a slight nod to realism rather than attempting to accurately simulate it. But I'm currently 20,000Ly away from any station and have to find other things to do while I'm waiting for fuel scooping every few jumps.
I do not agree (despite my comments above) with using game mechanics to force players into game styles they are not interested in. The Engineers seems to have gone down that path. One of the reasons I don't touch it.
Even as Devil's Advocate on this one, you be like, ten thousand wat-ts here. Also, 20k LY from *any* station, even Jaques? ... I... yeah, now I suddenly understand so, so very much about you.