a reasonable place to start.....
but (and there is always a "but").....
how do you reconcile the conflicts you hint at later in your post?
you mention paying taxes. but if you resent paying taxes how do things like roads, schools and the NHS get paid for?
you mention abiding by laws , what happens if the chap next door to you decides to start dumping asbestos on his land (upwind of you). It's his freedom to do what he wants. what about the chap driving after 15pints at 90mph down the local high street in a car with defective brakes?
society must have some common standards of behaviour. Is it ok to date a 17year old? is it ok to turn up to work after taking coke, weed, alcohol, caffeine or nicotine? Can I own a machine gun?
almost nobody will agree with all the greed standards. You might be happy that smoking weed is allowed, but unhappy that immigrants are allowed to settle. On the other hand somebody else might be happy that weed is banned and unhappy that immigrants can't settle.
the best we can expect is "living as free as its possible to be in this day and age while respecting the freedom of others".
it is impossible to have a situation where you get exactly what you want whilst someone else gets exactly what they want unless you want exactly the same things.
Define freedom. If my neighbour dumps asbestos upwind of me and mine, he gets a knock on the door at 3 in the morning from a couple of burly chaps with baseball bats.
Some taxes have to be paid if other freedoms like my love of fast cars is to be indulged...no roads no fun after all. If I get caught speeding, I face consequences just like Mr fly tipping asbestos man faces. Those are accepted conditions to having as much freedom as one can get in this day and age.
Schools...see above.
Dating a 17yr old...mixture of consequences and local laws...16 is the legal age here so not seeing an issue here so long as no funny business. The consequences fer some guy dating my 17year old daughter however...see above with the burly guys at 3 in the morning.
Turning up fer work off me face...been there done that suffered the consequences.
Me smoking weed...thats my choice and Ive been to prison twice in the past fer it. I accept the consequences and still smoke every single day of my life because Im free to make that choice. Others are free to not like that choice, but I still make it anyway, to hell what anyone else thinks. I literally dont care.
Owning an illegal firearm...no comment.
There are many freedoms to be had...some have consequences, others do not. Total freedom is unrealistic, always was and always will be...its about the freedom to choose regardless of the consequences. Take brexit fer example...that was a freedom that many didnt want us to have because of the consequences. Then not respecting a freely made choice and demanding the decision be reversed because dumb people couldnt be trusted with such an important freedom apparently.
One cannot define freedom as it means different things to different people. To me, brexit was us breaking free as a nation...after all the arguments to the contrary, I still believe it was the right thing to do...I was free to make the choice and I used that freedom...and now fer the consequences ^