It's the same for a lot of stuff.
The Marco invite is another huge PITA. AND I DIDN'T EVEN WANT TO TALK TO HIM. I just wanted Palin. Then it's MATs hunting. I understand having to work for something, I have a Cutter and a Corvette ( I can grind with the best ). It's the not knowing that's the frustrating part. Are you missing something ? <check invites list again > Did you do it correctly ? <check forums> Is there a timer ? <Check forums again, plus google> Should you menu log and mode switch ? <How many times ? is 50 enough ?> Is this the right system ? <Forum Check again, plus Google, plus Reddit>. Before long you're half crazy and 3 days have passed. You'd like to take your G5-DD equipped FDL out for a spin.. but you can't. Before you log in, you're asking Is Today the Day ? Is there a system you could check ?
Remember all the havoc before we got the little 'bars' to show rank progression ? This is the same frustration.
Sometimes I think FDev is running a huge social experiment on masochism and we're the monkeys.
It's like the conversation I had with the wife a long while back. < Paraphrased over a few days >
Her : If you hate mining, why are you doing it ?
Me : The engineer won't talk to me until I do 500 tons, and then they want 10 tons of a mineral you can ONLY get from mining.
Her : OK. Then she talks to you. What will she give you ?
Me : The engineer ? Nothing. I don't want anything from her.
Her : So why are you doing it again ?
Me: So I can up my rep with her, so she'll give me the name of the other engineer..
Her : And that one will give you what you want ?
Me : Well, if I have the right stuff. This new ship doesn't have the firepower I..
Her : The one you just bought ? The super ultra ship you worked weeks for ? That one ?
Me : Yeah, I just need a bunch of work done.
Her : So your new ship is broken ?
Me : Well, no. But it doesn't work as well as it could.
Her : The new one ?
Me : Yes.
Her : So, you're doing something you don't like, to talk to someone you don't want to, to fix a ship you just bought.. so it works.
Me : Uumm. YES. that is correct.
Her : And then it will work ?
Me : Well, if I get good rolls..
Her : Rolls ?
Me : Yea, it's random, so I might have to roll a lot to get good stats.
Her : And how much does that cost ?
Me : It's free, if I have the right materials..
Her : And how much do those cost ?
Me : Nothing, but you have to find them, and some are pretty rare. So you have to do missions to get most of them, or you can mine and prospect..
Her : Which you hate..
Me : Well..
Her : And this will make you happy ?
Me : It should. unless they NERF it like they did my last one..
Her : Nerf ?
Me : Yeah, they decide something is too good, and change the game so it isn't..
Her : So this might not even work ?
Me : It will.. or should. At least for a while. Probably.
Her : Why do you play this game again ?