I look on landing pads like seats in an Icelandic disco. If someone is sitting on a chair, it's their chair as long as they sit there. When they get up and you sit, it's now your chair for as long as you sit.I've been complaining about lack of a docking queue and timer for years, but the prevailing opinion is that it's more reasonable for players to have to mode switch to use outposts than for outposts to evict idle or dallying CMDRs, which is something that I find to be absolutely ludicrous.
No to timers. If you need a pad that badly, go to Solo.