So far I helped my son into space and a friend of mine. My son was pretty open to everything, but didn't play much by himself yet. Concerning that friend of mine, there is kind of a story attached to that... I told him how much I love this game and showed him a few screenshots. I told him it's not for everyone, a disclaimer I always add when somebody asks me about Elite. He then got the game, but didn't tell me, and just jumped in. That resulted in two rage quits, and that friend is usually a patient guy.
The fact that he then disliked the game for reasons not really fair made me want to show him how it's really done. So I made an appointment with him, brought food and drink and kinda mentored his first flight. He then played until he owned a Keelback, but then lost interest, which is okay.
The game's tutorials are pretty unfriendly. Also because they don't really show you the really important things. Small things like to pitch, not to yaw if you want to turn faster... And the fighting tutorial is much to hard for beginners. You can't really get a feeling for your guns and maneuvering and all. Also Elite is such a complex game, for which I love it to bits, by the way, but it really needs a proper introduction for new players. Something that says: "Okay new player. It's a lot. We know. Let's start very easy. Step by step". The video tutorials are actually better than that annoying pilot who even ridicules you when you fly past your target...
Another crucial thing that's really well hidden is the game manual. I mean, it's awesome. 100+ double pages. It explains everything... But it's a very small button in the upper right corner of the launcher. It should be a big fat flashing thing.
And yes, there is a manual.
I will soon mentor another friend who wants to get the game, and I already warned him about the complexity and all. When I started the game I already knew what it would be like, because I played the old Elite back then and already loved Frontier and First Encounters to bits. I can't really imagine what it's like for new players to jump into the game without any preparation and who don't know what to expect.
I've never read the manual
I just hit on a nice idea that may help. If every mission TYPE had either a video or a tutorial example of the mission that you could try first, that would be great. Then at least people who died without completely understanding why, don't lose their ship, fail their missions, think this game is evil, etc, etc.