Just to concentrate on one point you raised, the AI. Yep, presently the AI is average at best but wasn't there a time where MoM bought the NPC abilities up and what was the result - total whingfest here on the forums rivers of salt so wide Moses couldn't part it, so much so that the NPCs had to be nerfed.
Honestly, I am really happy you and certain others are so taken with NMS, it appears to be the game you have all been searching for. Just can't understand why you all are still hanging around the forums of a game you now consider so inferior in so many ways.
What is 'MoM' ?
The thing about the NPCs being raised was that the NPCs had engineered weapons to god mode and obliterated players. That is not how you do game combat either. The player should always have the advantage.
The NPCs were not nerfed. The error was removed. You really need to get your facts and history checked.
Whingfest? So what You're saying is that you'd be happy to be put against unbeatable NPCs for your entire gameplay? Ok. But in your mind anyone else complaining about it is, 'whining'.. Ok.
Who said exactly that NMS was the game they were always waiting for? Or are you just trying to be 'smart'? What I have done, like many others, is question how a team of 10 can make a team of 100+ look like they're dragging their feet?
Why am I 'hanging' around the forums? To keep the whiteknight brigade honest. I still play Elite, every day in fact. But, I know poor development when I see it. I know poor game design when I see it. I did it myself for a 10 or so years. Where did I say Elite was Inferior? That's right! I did'nt! That's you trying to be 'smart' again, and failing. I said Elite has a lot of catching up to do, to match NMS for abilities and enjoyment. I think 'Oblivion' was probably the best RPG ever made. I don't play it now. Does that mean I now think it's crap?
If you want to debate the differences, bearing in mind the developer count and the deliverables, I'm all for it. If however you prefer to sit and attempt to be 'smart' with me, pick someone else. You might score a point or 2.
You really need to look at what other companies can do with much much, smaller teams. And measure it against what Fdev 100+ are producing in 4-5 years. For sure, NMS had a bad start, but they've turned it around. Elite had a great start, but continued to add buggy code, sub-par implementations of disjointed systems. And to this day, after years in the making, if you click thru the targets in a system and then click next system in route, it bugs out and fails to show the system reticule. Combat is riddled with bugs. The Mission board is bugged. And the entire system lacks cohesiveness, balance and most of all, players are forced to use external code and websites to achieve what should be available in game.
Finally, looking at the recent figures, it would appear that yes, a lot of players have moved over to NMS. For how long? shrug, I don't know, but it is indicative that players want something more than Elite:Grindfest
But hey, I actually think you're a mature guy, but less of the 'smartness' and more facts would be beneficial.