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That can be done, but it completely erases any control modifications done. People are in between giving up their modifications, or having to spend extra effort to make bindings. That's fine enough for a beta and yes, it's not much extra effort.
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But imagine this scenario: You are not a diehard fan. You come home after a long day at work. You heard a lot of bad things about the new stuff already. (I mean, look around in the beta forums. There are people around who openly stated that they refused to ever test the new things, as they already in advance decided that this stuff is bad. ) They still decide to give it a try. But instead of being able to try it, the game now forces them to set up controls for something they don't even know yet.
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It's not good. And it's also not that hard to fix. The binding file is well structured. Just check if the structures for the new controls are there yet. If not, just add the default bindings. It avoids a lot of frustration on player side. (5 minutes per player, multiplied by the playerbase, is a lot of time used in a way which can push people to go for something else. ) Thus I think it is necessary to have that.
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Hmm. Some points there:
1. It's still a game. It might be just me, but I don't have a complete jet fighter cockpit at home. If I would, I'd also have no problems placing everything.
2. You might be right that the control stick in a jet fighter is not used in menus. But it's also not like the pilot is transferred to a different screen/location when using other things. In ED, when you go to the galaxy map, system map, FSS, DSS, you don't have access to your ships controls any more. So it's not like you could in system map move your cursor and the ship changes course.
3. Wrong mode under stress: yes. If you get attacked and then, by having strange bindings, start switching between galaxy map and system, you might be at a disadvantage. That already was like that before, you just now can also add the FSS and DSS into the mix.

4. From all you write, I guess you know more about fighter planes than anybody else here. Can you please tell us more?
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