... If you cannot play versus ppl why do you think you are good for co-op playing?
It's a completely different game.
I don't really go in for combat much in this game. I can't usually be bothered with fixed weapons; I don't think real spaceships would cripple themselves like that. (I am "gud" with them: I played the original Elite when we didn't even have micro-gimballing or any yaw control). I find the flight model "magic treacle" a very poor representation of space flight. I consider a meta PvP ship actually useless for playing the game: it has poor jump range and tiny cargo capacity, so I've never bothered to build one.
But I really like co-op opportunities. Poking around Guardian ruins, doing wing missions, chatting with people met at quest locations, getting into a Thargoid base, fighting Thargoids in a wing - all great times, when no scum players try to mess things up.
I remember posting my lightweight-hull cargo-carrier long-jump Anaconda build some years ago. Harry Potter commented, "I could melt that in 30 seconds". I replied, "Yes, but you probably won't. It's for PvE play." (Later, when he was prominent in DG2, I added him to block to change "probably" to "definitely"). See, I just wasn't playing the same game as him.
This is a sandbox; you can play however you like. "Blaze your own trail".