For clarification, I'm a feminist (as is everyone who believes in gender equality, technically speaking) maybe more engaged than most. I agree very strongly with your sentiment about representation - however I think the issue of gendered titles, particularly for professions, is ground for a valid debate and honestly probably was considered by Frontier given the prominence of Emperor Arissa in their lore. She's not called Emperor by accident (probably).we are speaking about having title equivalent, which already exist and is feasible in game, for people who represent roughly HALF of the world population.
Many people who identify as women would be happy to leave stuff like the suffix "-ess" behind. Gendered nouns can carry a lot of unwanted baggage with them... in this case years of subjugation and systemically imposed inequality (through male primogeniture, marriage rights etc.). Nouns like doctor, teacher, paramedic, scaffolder or pyromaniac all get by perfectly fine without having to be split into gendered subcategories, so we know it can work.
The difficulty comes in changing 'active' vocabulary. What could we do to move towards inclusive language that shakes off historical inequality in this context?
A) call everyone by the male title (Duke): the problem being it makes people think women are being written out, even if that wasn't the intention or if others see them as being written in.
B) call everyone by the female title (Duchess): difficult because historically the male title holds the power, or is more respected, this causes discomfort for some, (particularly conservative men) and more pragmatically because the feminine version is a compound with a suffix (it's not the root, and it's longer.)
C) just bypass all this and make a new word for both: this doesn't really work well in real life, not many people are very receptive to esperanto-esque targeted moves like this. Maybe because it's easier for people to laugh at and discredit, (changing actress to actor is less of a leap than asking to rename both gumbleflup.) In a fictional world it's much easier to do... Look at any number of prior works of sci fi or fantasy, but fdev belong to a particular 1980s school where stuff is just Thatcherism in space and therefore not hugely imaginative in this way.
Long story short, it's not categorically laziness, error or sexism on fdev's part (edit: not ruling that out, though I hope not). Depends which school of feminism you subscribe to. I spent the day asking my friends what they thought about it and most said they found it both easy and encouraging to imagine a future where a woman could be emperor or king and didn't need a diminutive suffix or an alternative word derived from the same root as c**t.
It's an interesting topic for sure, and worth taking the time to think about.
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