I have played a lot of MMO's over the years and the only one that came even close to performing as poorly as E: D was SWTOR and even that game eventually improved. FFXIV performs just fine even in high traffic area's, the weather in Ireland has no effect on the connection and when problems do occur there's usually an obvious reason such as a DDOS attact on the authentication servers or the release of a new expansion.
P2P multi player performs poorly every where it's used, Ubisoft even went to the trouble of removing it from "For Honor" because they couldn't get it to work reliably.
I think the issue here is that you are confusing me with a white knight.