When I first bought the game I didn't like it much. I found it annoying, slow, down right infuriating. I couldn't understand much of it because there was just so little information available in game and I hated having to go research everything on some website somewhere like I was studying for something. It felt overly complicated and devoid of any sense for a while to be honest. I couldn't find anything, everything felt like a scavenger hunt where I had to guess at where to go, what to do, how to do it. I stuck it out, kept playing as much out of shear stubbornness as curiosity.
I didn't like combat at all originally. the spawning of pirates every time I took a trade mission felt more like I was being set up by the faction I was working for than any random event. I skipped most missions because having to search for a station selling a commodity was a chore. I didn't like outfitting ships because no matter where I was it always seemed like what I needed was somewhere else.
Then I found some tools that helped-EDdiscovery, trade computer extension II, two third party programs that really helped me to find my way in the game. I did indeed spend a lot of time on websites, more than I wanted to, learning about the game mechanics. People actually helped and answered questions for me which is a nice element in this community forum, don't let the trolls fool you its nicer than it might first seem.
some things to look at:
Are you wanted in a system somewhere? did you do a mission that made you hostile to another faction in some system? your right hand screen will tell you if you're running a bounty or a fine. you can pay this off in systems at contacts, you can also look for interstellar services using the galaxy map to search systems in your planets, this will allow you to pay off any fines or bounties you might be having.
are you carrying some cargo in your hold? sometimes when you turn in a mission it will deposit some reward in your cargo that you can sell. I didn't realize that myself at first and found myself getting chased for that 1 ton item I was carrying without knowing it.
Did you abandon a mission? This will sometimes cause you to get a bounty and a fine which will cause bounty hunter NPCs to chase you down. this can be paid off at that interstellar services I was referring to.