... and the stupid exclamation mark stays until they relog.
(I have seriously culled my friends list in game because of this.)
One of the reasons I basically don't have any friends in Elite, anymore. There was a particularly infuriating period of time when everybody was grinding missions for one reason or another. And of course when you save-scum the mission board, you spam your friends with "online" - "offline" messages.
Within a month I reduced my friendlist from 50+ to about 10 and have stopped accepting invites forever.
I don't play many MMOs, but those I do play need to have one very specific feature - the ability to switch the forking chat OFF.
Over the years I stopped hoping Elite would receive some comms settings that would allow me to isolate myself should I choose to.
