I can tell you about my experience using my laptops in VR mode with Oculus CV1 and Oculus Rift S helmets.
I had a laptop for two years - HP Omen 17 i7-7700HQ (2.8)/32Gb/1TB+512GB SSD/17.3" FHD AG/NV GTX 1070 8GB.
I used the Oculus Rift S helmet with this laptop in the game Elite Dangerous via the Display Port. However, the laptop was very hot, especially in combat modes. At these moments, the game even started to slow down. To prevent heating, I bought a laptop stand with fans. But in combat modes, the video card still started to slow down the image output.
After a whole year of using this laptop, I purchased another laptop from the same manufacturer, but a newer model - HP Omen 17 i9-10885H 32Gb 1Tb + SSD 512Gb nV RTX2080 Super 8Gb.
In combat modes, the game's slowdown has stopped. However, the laptop (its video adapter) warms up even more. I had to use the old laptop stand with fans, and additional cooling for the keyboard. The laptop cools down perfectly. And this additional cooling device applied very well to the additional keyboard.
Here in the attached files - in the first photo, an old laptop with an Oculus CV1 helmet with an external monitor and with the Elite Dangerous game running.
The second photo shows a new laptop with additional cooling on it and an additional keyboard. The helmet in the photo is an Oculus Rift S.
Next to the laptop - joysticks from Saitek X52 Pro.
In conclusion, I can say that I didn't have any other problems (except for heating) with laptops from Hewlett Packard. There were no problems with the helmets from Oculus. And I've never used Steam. The game was purchased from the manufacturer, not via Steam.