I can't explain why I believe the destination was between me and the sun after the jump.
What do you mean? Is it a secret?
Tell you what, as soon as you get into the system press X to drop down to minimum cruise. That will give you time to safely choose your destination....and yes sometimes you will need to fly around the star. It makes no difference at what angle you approach...heh not unless your destination had some kind of trick up its sleeve. The kind of trick that says pfffft what do i need to orbit for...i'd just lock myself here onto this arbitrary point in space and showboat my uniform motion.
I kind of think you are having a go at us with this thread...but if not then i think you should revisit the tutorials to fill in some of your blind spots.
Good luck