I know that first thing I gotta do is deploy my scoop. But how do I 'scoop' it up? I assumed I just slowly go towards and be under 40 speed but even when I approach at 5 speed it just bounces off my ship. So what am I doing wrong here?
If you go mining in a Sidewinder, you can scoop up the fragments pretty quickly when you get used to it. Laser about 10 fragments at a time. Any more takes too long to collect them and some will expire before you get them. Don't leave until your refinery is full too. That gives you an extra 4T to sell. After a few trips in the SW, you should have enough for a Type 6, which is a really good starter mining ship.
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