Liqua PM'd me regarding a post I made a while ago and quickly deleted. It was regarding his generosity, and people declaring that.
While I know PM's should stay private, I want people to understand how I feel about the issue of people being generous. I feel it is important I show you all my reply to Liqua ...
This is not open to debate. This is just my way of apologising in case I did upset anyone.
Moderators, feel free to lock this thread, but please leave it here for everyone to see.
While I know PM's should stay private, I want people to understand how I feel about the issue of people being generous. I feel it is important I show you all my reply to Liqua ...
Hi Liqua
1. I regret you felt it necessary to tell people to keep quiet, that is one of the reasons I delete posts, because after typing it all out, I realise that it's probably best if I don't say something.
2. While you are free to be generous, and others free to accept your generousity, yes sometimes people announcing it can seem a bit "rubbing your nose in it", and I'd be lying if I said I didn't find it even slightly insulting.
3. I can hardly be one to complain about someone either being generous or accepting someone's generosity as I have on two occasions now accepted Psykokow's generosity and that was what I remembered when I deleted the post you mentioned. The last thing I wanted was to seem (to Psykokow at least) I was ungrateful or two-faced.
4. Am I jealous? It might be an element of that, I hope it isn't. If I am jealous even slightly, I am trying to not show it, and if I do see it in myself I am trying to not be that way. I don't say no to someone else's generosity, but I don't ask for it either.
5. The last thing I want is to upset anyone, no matter what. Please tell the people you told to keep quiet to not have to. Please continue to be generous. I don't want you or anyone to have to walk on eggshells because of me.
Feel free to talk to me about anything.
Alien
This is not open to debate. This is just my way of apologising in case I did upset anyone.
Moderators, feel free to lock this thread, but please leave it here for everyone to see.