Anyways, censorship doesn't always have to do with the government; as there's biased censorship and corporate censorship.
You're talking about freedom of speech. Corporations cannot limit your (from an US perspective, which neither of us are) 1st amamendment right. You, me and every other citizen can censor whatever we want: it doesnt limit freedom of speech. Again: If I were to put giant sculptures of my reproductive organs on your porch, you'd be totally within your right to remove them without 'limiting my freedom of speech'. Your porch, your choice. Your website, your choice. Its called freedom.
As for the XMas thing: it was not intended as an insult, and I did mean it sincerely. If I were convinced my freedom of speech was being curtailed I'd be upset. I assume the same applies to you,. I dont want to be upset. I assume the same applies to you. In this case, your fears are unwarranted because a private website not showing something you want to see is in no way an infringement of your freedom of speech. If you were to understand that, you would not feel the distress of believing your rights were under attack. I dont want you to feel distress, so I encourage you to take the steps needed to make you understand your fears are unfounded. And if you'd rather not than I wish you a wonderful christmas with friends and family all the same.