Nope I am at a complete stop when I try to lower the gear. Just ran the Steam file checker and it found no problems. This is really bad for me since I can't do anything without landing gear! I dont know how to 'autoland' yet..
1. Are you playing Odyssey or Horizons? (Try the other one from that which is giving you gyp.)
2. If you have a docking computer fitted it will do the landing gear for you (you just
ask for docking permission* then zero your throttle). I think your starting ships have an Advanced Docking Computer fitted as standard.
3. Be aware that during tutorials the controls are not always "enabled" (or only become enabled at certain points) - so this could be one reason for you not being able to drop the gear. (Look in the top corner of the screen to see if there is an instruction for you to follow.)
One tip - try to include a screenshot (F10 by default) to illustrate your issues - (better yet a video but you might not be into that) - this often gives us an insight to what the issue might be.
* A wild guess at maybe that being the problem,