Ano's easy step by step guide to pain free docking
1: find the landing gear submenu in options and make sure it is switched on. This makes controlling your ship a simple up down right left forward backward operation and the thrusters only go as long as you push the button, when the landing gear is down. It takes a few seconds for it to come down.
2: Find the front of the station. On Dodo's, target the station and follow the arrows on the side of the hologram.
3: Get close to the entrance, but not directly in front of the slot in case of traffic. To the left, right, above or below is good.
4: Landing gear on. This will also stop you boosting into something.
5: using the up, down, etc, etc, thrusters, get in front of the slot.
6: Push on through to the other side. (Lyrics Morrison).
7: locate your dock with the circular indicator top left of your scanner feed.
8: move over to your docking spot and nudge yourself into landing.
This should be compulsory reading for all new pilots.