Yeah - it ain't easy. Its surprising how much of everything is a steep (vertical) learning curve. There's just no real training or preparation provided even for simple things like navigating the galaxy map (Only found out last night how to use the HOTAS to move vertically - even then i'm still having issues i think?).
FA off - yeah i'm playing with that - have fun, it ain't easy. Flying FA OFF is not unlike making love to a beautiful woman - if your all wham bam with you attitude, wham bam will be what you get - if you are smooth and gentle then you'll get a better result!
Died now about 5 times, keep flying into stations, got taken out by a cruiser by accident, flew into a sun, nearly ran out of fuel in the middle of neutron star, forgot about two missions i was supposed to be doing, lost a station, still haven't figured out planetary approaches properly - need i go on? You are not alone. But its already addictive as hell!!!